First off I want to say CONGRATS!!!!! and I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months!!!!!!!!!

Hi Kat.....well I'm on my 4th pregnancy and I have dreaded telling my mother every single time.....I'm 25 yrs. old and now live on my own but the first 3 times I was living with her! I feel the same way as you I had my 1st child when I was 15, I had my daughter Indica when I was 21 and my son Malekai when I was 23 and now this will be my last and I'm 25! So, I feel where your coming from!! I think in her eyes all I've done is mess up, my mom loves both of my kids to death and will this next little one too....I have also realized the longer I wait to tell her and the more people that know before her make it much more worse when I do finally tell her! I think it will be hard for you no matter what, but look at it this way she'll find out from you telling her, figure it out, or someone else that knows might slip up and tell her which way do you think she'll take better???? I would assume the you telling her one! But I don't know your mom....Anyway this prolly wasn't much help for you but I just wanted to share my opinions! I look forward to seeing you on here more and getting to know you!!!